When Someone Dies: the guide by Sarah Hartley

When Someone Dies

A practical UK guide for the days, weeks and months after a death.

The cover of When Someone Dies: The Practical UK Guide, by Sarah Hartley

If someone has just died

You don't need to do everything today. These are the first things that matter.

  1. The death is confirmed. A doctor or nurse confirms the death. In hospital, staff will explain what happens next.
  2. Contact a funeral director when you're ready. There's no rush to choose. You can compare more than one.
  3. Register the death. In England and Wales this is usually within 5 days of the cause of death being confirmed; in Northern Ireland within 5 days; in Scotland within 8 days. The register office or hospital bereavement office will tell you how to book.
  4. Use Tell Us Once (England, Scotland and Wales). When you register, ask about Tell Us Once. It informs most government departments (benefits, tax, passport, driving licence) in one go. In Northern Ireland, see nidirect: who to tell about a death.
  5. Look for a will. It may name executors and include funeral wishes.
  6. Let the bank, pension providers and utilities know. Most have a bereavement team. The guide covers who to contact and what they'll ask for.

For official guidance, see GOV.UK: What to do after someone dies.

What the guide covers

A plain-English, step-by-step guide to everything that follows a death in the UK:

  • Registering the death and arranging the funeral
  • Wills, probate and acting as an executor
  • Inheritance tax, including the 2026 and 2027 changes
  • Benefits, pensions and bereavement support payments
  • Closing accounts, property, and dealing with debts
  • Looking after yourself and others while you grieve

Fact-checked against current UK rates and rules.

For funeral directors, hospices and bereavement offices

Bulk copies are available at a trade price for organisations that support bereaved families. A free one-page "first steps" leaflet is also available to print.

Bulk enquiries: orders@whensomeonedies.uk

Need to talk to someone?